“I closed my door to socialization that could possible ruin my social norms for the past years. So everything that is new to me socially are regarded as a threat to my own social life and should not be welcomed. “
Normally everything that I perceive socially bad remains as it is according to my judgment. And there is no way of reconsidering it nor evaluating it in depth for nothing can change how it is- it is socially bad after all. However, my own perception of the social convention gradually changed when I was in college. More indifferences came forth, and people are a lot more socially inclined that at first I was afraid on how to handle them. But gradually I came to realize that it is not that hard to understand things when you’re open minded enough to consider them. There’s always a reason why people live in the norms they are used to. Understanding the social norms that I was not used to through my friends lead me to become open minded and more understanding of the people around me. People are not bad after all upon knowing how they lived their life.
Now I still have a lot of things on my way that might challenge my judgment. My new workmates give me new things to learn and understand to. And it is a hell of a social encounter.
I have one thing on my mind to figure out though, why do some people are bully? I do have some sort of reasons on my mind. But this person that I’m talking about is quite interesting, she might have her own reasons that I haven’t thought of.
She’s my opposite character, but I’m trying to befriend her though.